I really dislike when people  try to argue that the adage “No Pain, No Gain” is dangerous, or untrue or outdated.

Really? 

Here’s what I say…the people that say this are usually the ones that need to apply this philosophy…and not just in their fitness levels, but in other parts of their lives too.

The way I see it, we need to step outside of our comfort zone, regardless of what area we need / desire improvement in…career, love, money, and yes, fitness.

No where is this more evident than in my latest group of soon-to-be 10-Week Challenger Graduates, who all dared to step outside of their own comfort zone, trust in me, do the work and create positive changes in their bodies and their lives.

As the emails come in, there are always varying levels of success…one woman has dropped 12 pounds, another has dropped 3 dress sizes, another hasn’t lost the weight according to the scale, but she had to get some new pants because her body shape changed…tighter waist, smaller thighs, smaller hips.

Some have been true to the training and eating every day so far, others perhaps not. Some have stayed on the healthy bandwagon religiously, others have fallen off and gotten back on, sometime several times over the course of the Challenge. And so it goes…

But in my view, regardless of what the scale shows, or the dress size, I can tell you this: each woman has stepped outside their comfort level and stepped into a new possibility, a place of opportunity, that needs to be reached in order to make changes. In their lives, they learned to embrace (whether with joy or not), the no pain, no gain philosophy that is necessary to make changes.

I always say, dig deep and soar high.

So the next time someone again says, “I don’t believe in the no pain, no gain thing….” I’ll ask them if there are any areas of their lives that they’d like to see improvement. With  a little less talk and a more (courageous) action, I know they too would soar into that place of infinite possiblitites. If  they embraced the pain of growth  they would come out feeling stronger and more able to move into the fullness of their lives. That’s what I see in my Challengers every day!

Congarts to all my 10-Week Challengers….I am proud of you, but more importantly I hope that you are proud of you. You dared to step out of your comfort zone  and live a new way. Let’s keep the momentum going, shall we?

karen

“Mark Twain said: Really great people make you feel that you, too, can become great. Eight weeks into the Challenge I can taste success! Thank-you for inspiring us to be great Karen!”
– Susan Lees, Victoria, BC

Seems I caused quite a stir by putting these photos up on Facebook….we had a ton of comments! Some of them great, others, well…

“I’d never want a bubble butt like the one on the right,” said one. “Cosmetic surgery,” said another, and one got upset that I was comparing caucasion to a Brazilian butt. Still another woman said the butt on the right was photogenically enhanced…

What’s the deal? I’m all for opinions, but I sensed a growing tension and competitiveness amongst my fellow sisters…

First of all, it’s not my photo, so please don’t shoot the messenger. Second of all, I was trying to (again) dispell the myth that squats create a wide, ugly butt. I see my role as one of education, given my experience, is all.

Does the lady on the right actually squat? I have no idea, to be honest, but from where I’m standing, it certainly looks like it. I’ve been to enough competitions to know what a squatting butt looks like – high, firm and with less fat on it. But I know for sure the lady on the left does not squat (or not properly, anyway). 

How can I say that? Because I used to have that butt – it was big and fat for years, then when I lost the weight, it was simply flat. It was only after learning to squat (at the tender age of 48) that it started to get rounded, higher and smaller.

Don’t believe me? Ask my hubby! 🙂 I don’t have a butt like miss right, but it’s kinda in between miss left and miss right…it’s certainly a helluva lot better than it was! And if I can do it at my age, you can make improvements too!

Several commentors said they had been squatting for years, but their butt never looked like that. Genetics do play a role, sure, but could it be that you just aren’t squatting well enough, or consistent enough, or heavy enough? It might not really be your thing, and that’s ok too! It took me 6 months to perfect a simple bar squat, but I was committed to learn, really learn, this movement that had evaded me for over 20 years. For me, the only real change came when I started doing 8-10 sets of heavy squats (this is relative for every woman) every 6 days or so, coupled with another 12-20 sets of straight glute exercises.

My posts are meant to educate, challenge, and shift how we view things, but let’s not lose sight of the sisterhood! The way I see it, that’s one of the biggest issue facing women today, the falling away of support by other females, especially in the area of health, bodies, and….here it comes….butts! I’ve seen it for years…the healthier (and dare I say sexier) women may become, the more they offend / challenge other women. I’ve even seen it in families, with co-workers…in the closest of relationships.

Ladies, support your fellow women, be they squatters or non-squatters. We’re all in this together, young or old, runners or weight lifters, rounded-butts or flat-butts! We can choose to differ, for sure, but we need to keep the sisterhood intact. As Don Miguel Ruez says in The 4 Agreements – be impeccable with your words. We are, after all, cultivating a new generation of women whom we hope will support each other in their fitness and beauty goals, and in knowing they deserve to feel (and look) their best!

From your sister,
karen
🙂

Many thanks for all who showed up at the 21st Annual Victoria Health Show…I got to meet all sorts of people, and especially nice to meet you gals who are on one of my on-line programs…that I’ve never even met face to face! NOW I can put a face to the name! COOL! Heck, I even got a flex out of Greens + creator, Sam Graci! (right)

And I’ve got a bunch of you who bought my lifestyle book – One Rep at a Time – and are now doing the program….remember, email me with any questions! (Hey, where else can you get a full 8-week program with real-life videos, workout cards, nutrition, recipes, articles and info on how to build emotional and spiritual health and wellness…for FREE?).

It’s been my pleasure to create the 8-WEEK BLISS Body Makeover Program and my pleasure to give it away to you…I love paying it forward, and you are paying it forward too ($1 from the sale of every book goes to charity). And I’m at the helm of the program, so email me with questions, ok?

OK. I’m off to soak my achy feet! Thanks again ladies! And for those of you in Vancouver, I’ll be there for the Vancouver Wellness Show at the Convention Centre, Feb 17-19th. I’ll be there at my booth, and I’ll be lecturing on the Saturday again! (I just LOVE this stuff!).

Ciao! Karen

PS  – My book is available at Bolen’s, Russell’s, Munro’s and Tanners….some have sold out, but I’ve got more copies coming next week!

I was interviewed by CFAX Radio yesterday for the upcoming Health Show this weekend…thought I’d share it with you all. We chatted about all kinds of stuff….

If you come to the show, please stop by booth #47. Would love to see you!

Karen

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