Can you hear it? That echo? It’s rampant in the fitness/health industry these day.
What echo, you say? Regurgitated beliefs and perspectives about healthy eating that people just pass along like hand-me-downs. I sometimes wonder what happened to free thinking, free spirited thought, based not on the norm or the majority, but based on something outside the norm, on the periphery. How to choose?
As a Certified Sports Nutrition Advisor (Masters Level), we certainly don’t follow the crowd. We draw from the teachings of traditional cultures and research: Pottinger and his team of cats that taught us about generational nutritional deficiencies and how it applies to today’s children, dentist Weston Price and his findings on the link between dental decay (or lack of decay) in traditional cultures, and how it summarizes the body’s health, Chinese values of eating in Season, homeopathy, naturopathy, metabolic typecasting and more.
So many people put labels on their eating (paleo, pescetarian, low carb, keto), because it comes to define them. But what if you were label-less?
For me, I’ve been at this for many, many years, and I eat according to my body, cultural background, goals, and priorities, and I still can’t label it. So in our work, my ladies and I call it the Warrior Woman Way…eating within certain guidelines, but intuitive, with the individual woman in mind, flexible, real. Some of us eat dairy, some not. Some are meatless, others not. But the common thread is in our perspective and intention – clean, nurturing, health-building and community-building, based in sound research from long ago, blended with modern day stuff…a quick mix, so to speak. And not hard lines …..if you don’t eat meat and you’re on an airplane, starving, with no other choice, and someone offers you a ham sandwich, please take it, because as a woman offering another woman nourishment, that is more important. Don’t break the bond, loosen the grip in order to create another bond, something much more important and lasting. (I learned this from Susun Weed. Lovely, really. Earth changing…)
Old school, indeed. Timeless, sometimes lost research that few know about and fewer ‘nutritionists’ or coaches in today’s fast-paced fitness industry even know about. “Don’t eat saturated fat, it’ll increase cholesterol” (wrong). “Eat low fat” (wrong, in fact, eat higher fat, and don’t forget to eat the chicken skin!), “eat clean” (and what exactly does this mean anyway? You gotta eat a bit ‘dirty’ for a good immune system!). “Eat Paleo” (the latest….but our tribal ancestors were not interested in expending energy in any way, especially in a gym atmosphere where we work to build muscle. They were about saving energy at all costs! So true paleo wouldn’t work for us!).
“Eat Vegan, it’s better for Mother Earth (untrue). “Beware eggs” (the perfect protein…really?). Always use olive oil (not in all instances, and it’s very low in the necessary omega 3′s we dearly need), eat omega 3 eggs (marketing), eat raw veggies (nope, not for all! Your poor thyroid!), eat your fruit (depending….)….
Find someone who bucks convention. Be brave. Be the voice, or look for the voice in all the noise. Expand your horizons. Dare to be non-traditional, to NOT follow the crowd.
Be a voice, not an echo. Don’t worry about having an eating label. Be label-less and see how you fare. I think you’ll find it very freeing! And much healthier in the long run, to be sure!
Oh yeah, and enjoy your chocolate. Us Warrior Women certainly do!
Karen
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Is chocolate milk really a better choice? Should you lift high reps, lower weight for a leaner look?Is greek yogurt really healthier? How do you create long, lean muscles? How much protein is ok and how much is enough? Can you speed up your metabolism? How much do genetics run the show? Can you spot reduce? How do things shift with age and what are reasonable expectations after 40? 50? How important are calories? Should you choose low carb or not?
Yes, I’ve heard them all, and it’s confusing the heck out of women everywhere! Let me clear the air in this informative tell-it-like-it-is seminar so you can get unstuck in your eating and training goals!
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Date: Wednesday, August 8th. Time: 7-8:30 pm, PST. Local dial info and password provided upon registration. Included: Seminar Transcript (pdf format) will be provided.
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It’s crazy but true, some of the worst support systems in the world are other women…friends, family, co-workers.
I see this every time I start a new group of Challengers….it usually starts around now, in the first few weeks of the Challenge. The innuendos and soft undercuts start coming…
“You’re too skinny”.
“You’re obsessive about training.”
“You’re no fun anymore.”
“Oh come on, let loose. It won’t kill you.”
Here’s the deal ladies!…when we get healthy, we become a challenge to other less healthy people. Why? Because we become a mirror that reflects them back to themselves…it’s just part of the journey. It always saddens me to see women drawn back into an unhealthy lifestyle OR stop their healthy living program to ease the nasty comments, rolling eyes, and criticisms coming our way.
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Like how about this one….”I hope when you’re done competing you will stop all this silly stuff,” or “you’re no fun anymore,” or my favourite (and this has personally been directed at me), “You’ve gotta have implants to win a show”. really? Check out Erin Stern, or Rachel McLish or last year’s Overall winner at the BC’s.
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One gal mentioned she’s not sure if her friend was being supportive or not…her friend looked down at this woman’s newly-manicured toenails (she’s competing shortly) and told her “nice, but oh, they look a tad bit too long.” This is the old classic give-them-a-compliment-but-undercut-them-slightly-afterward tactic. Nice….!
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I promptly told this woman that indeed she was at the receiving end of jealously and an inner unrest in the other woman who had neither the strength or discipline to improve her own life, so she was tryin to ever-so-subtly bring her down a notch.
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Ladies, IGNORE THIS! If you stick with your healthy eating and training lifestyle, you eventually find another ‘tribe’, the healthy kind, because you’ll find you have less in common. It’s not bad to leave your old life / friends / community or tribe behind if it means you can move toward health, vitality, and power.
You have 2 choices: you can either move forward or you slide right back into un-healthiness again, and re-join the old pack! DON’T let that happen! They chose their life, you chose yours. You don’t need to join them on their self-destructive path! Nor are you responsible for them. And if they make you feel guilty about not partying, always going to the gym, or not ‘hanging out’ because you’d rather be moving forward, that’s THEIR deal, not yours, but they are trying to sucker you into the old ways, to make themselves feel better.
It’s almost as insidious as the druggie or alcoholic that reams all over a newly-sober person who has walked away from that life. I’ve lived on the other side of the track, like a lot of you. And I made a choice many moons ago to make the most of my body, this life and this opportunity. And I know it all too well with parents who died in their 40′s and my son who lives life from a wheelchair, and can never know the beauty of a strong, working body.
Just walk away. You can let go with love. You don’t have to preach or fight back, just smile, grab your bowl of chicken breast and greens, and know that you are on the right path – YOUR PATH and at any time they are welcome to join you. Surprisingly some do, most don’t. Live your life wearing your fullest colours. It’s how it’s supposed to be!
So to all those apparently well-meaning and so-called supportive women out there, we’re on to you! And we’re throwing it back at you! For me, I never get those comments anymore, because I’ve been on this path way too long and everyone knows it’s my lifestyle now. Besides, my ‘tribe’ has changed slowly over the years, and there is no explaining or defending to do ’cause we all live the same way: empowered, healthy, supportive, caring.
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With fitness expert and best-selling author, Brad King
never had the need for a personal trainer. Having said this, I would not hesitate to hire Karen McCoy, as she is one of the best trainers in the business – bar none! As a man, hiring Karen is not an option, so if you’re woman and you want to get in the best shape of your life for the rest of your life, look no further – Karen is your expert of choice.”– Brad King, fitness expert, best-selling author, motivational speaker.
“Your monthly Healthy Living Program is exactly what I needed with regards to change in routines, diet, knowledge, tidbits. You have set up an excellent program that looks at all aspects of health, thank you!” – Aaron Price
“I love your monthly program….every month I look forward to a new workout and I love that excitement. I may miss the odd workout, but I never miss too many. I am much more aware of my body and how it works. The awareness and connection to my body I totally attribute to being on the HLP. I want to thank you for the HLP. I believe I have been able to better get through some difficult times with more grace because of it.” – Kim Warwick.
“As an author and international speaker, I meet many amazing coaches, trainers, authors and inspirational leaders. When I met Karen McCoy, I instantly realized this woman was in a league of her own. Her passion for health and fitness is driven not by vanity or ego – although she looks very much like a world class athlete. Karen is a living example of channeling her struggles and feelings of fear and loss into a life-enhancing, productive, empowered, healthy way of living, loving, moving, giving and receiving. Her book, One Rep at a Time, pulls together everything one would need to feel physically, emotionally and spiritually strong!” – Crystal Andrus, bestselling author, founder of The SWAT Institute.
“Karen McCoy displays amazing courage and adaptability in the personal
With my mentor and long time friend, Cory Holly.
journey of self discovery. Her life story proves that mental and physical health are both dependent on the resolution of much deeper emotional and spiritual concerns. Her book – One Rep at a Time – draws the reader in with the power of authenticity and then provides a multi-dimensional solution for life based health, nutrition and fitness science. She teaches us how to obtain a state of robust tranquility and inner peace through the acceptance of life as it is, not as it should or could be. It will strike your soul and touch you where it matters most.” – Dr. Cory Holly, president, Cory Holly Institute
“I think Karen’s approach to online training is fantastic and one that any women can work into their life. Going to classes or doing your own thing with a DVD has never worked for me as too many things get in the way. With Karen’s approach I get the support of a virtual club which I can take advantage of in my own time, no matter where I am– so flexible! I also think it is that constant contact via emails that keeps me engaged and reminds me to pay attention to my health. So in short, things are just great and can’t think of any changes to improve!” – Gay Corbett
“I only just found this program two months ago and I can’t imagine living without it. I’ve been telling all of my friends about it…I am really hoping that I can get some on them to join and to develop a California contingent! That would be so awesome!” – Amy Rodriguez, California
“Karen, you are a fantastic trainer. You truly care about your Warrior Women. The thing I love most about you is you keep it real, and you don’t make silly promises. You are honest and realistic about how being fit at 50+ is more challenging and 50 is NOT the new 30, but 50 can still look and feel great! I have learned so much while being a HLP member!” – Connie Burrus, Texas
“It’s been awhile since joining Karen’s online training program, and this is the best I’ve felt in a very long time! Yep, I’ve been sore after each workout but that’s okay – and I realize that I do have muscles!! I feel energized and happy that I’m on my way to a healthy lifestyle. There’s so much to learn from you… I feel very positive about the new direction and changes I’m making. I want to take charge of my health, body, mind and spirit – and through your program I know I can do it. In the two short weeks of lifting weights, coupled with the cleanest eating I have ever done in my life, I love how I feel!” – Trish Flanders
“Thanks for another great year of helping me and others kick ourselves in the butt, to push ourselves to constantly get out of our own health and fitness comfort zones. Those continuous tips, workout cards and videos sure keep me on my toes and help me to constantly challenge myself. And the HLP group, well, what can I say other than they’re just a great bunch of people and I enjoy reading their comments every day. Thanks for all that you do. It’s truly appreciated.” – Karen Walters-Edgar
“Signing up for online coaching with Karen was exactly what I needed to get myself back on track with my training. Having worked on my own and having had a personal trainer and now having had an online coaching experience I feel qualified to speak on the topic. On my own with books and such I made some slow progress. With the personal trainer I made nice progress but it was very expensive and although he was a high profile trainer he was not very attentive and was difficult to get in touch with. My experience with Karen has been very valuable to me both in regard to my training as well as the dollar value. Karen walked me through every single detail of the program, and she has been extremely generous with her time and I have never waited long for a personal reply when I’ve sent out an email – I think that is very unique all by itself. Karen truly delivers on all fronts-high quality program, support for implementing the program, high quality tutorials that leave no stone unturned and if all that is not sufficient, as was sometimes the case for this particularly tech challenged challenger…Karen was always available online with patient, kind and thoughtful words. There are many ways to gauge success. One of my best gauges for this program from the outset was, Can it be done well online?. The answer: with McCoy Fitness, a resounding YES!. I have made good progress with Karen’s program and found that it offers me a balanced approach to the very real situation of being a physical as well as a spiritual being.” – Anna Burns, New Jersey, NY
“As I look back on the challenge I can see that I have learned so much and for that I am grateful to you. I have gained strength, a smarter way of eating and a stronger belief in myself. I realized that lifting weights and seeing results in how we look and feel is a product of a few things: Consistency, Patience and Lifestyle. This has been a journey for me and it is not done. Thank you for the inspiration on so many levels Karen…you are truly remarkable.” – Alison West
“Karen, I just want to thank you for the dedication and commitment you bring to those of us who take this challenge. You gave me the incentive, and means to commit to a more vigorous and challenging weight training routine, and many good tips to make my workouts more interesting. Thank you again, I shall not hesitate to recommend you, and your program to my staff, and friends.” – Sincerely, Robin Clarke
“This Challenge has been exactly what I needed. Not only do I fit into my ‘skinny’ pants, but my confidence is going way up again too! Plus, I love the muscle tone I am developing and I’m looking forward to continuing the process!” – Sarah Watts, Cranbrook, BC
“I’ve always considered myself to be a fairly healthy and fit person, but Karen’s program introduced me to a whole new way of thinking about my diet and my workouts. I have gained muscle and trimmed fat and feel the strongest that I have felt in years. Finally, I shed those extra 10 pounds and turned it into muscle. Fitting this into our busy lives is a challenge, but with short manageable workout routines, it is do-able. The 10 week challenge was the spark to get me going and now I know what I need to do to maintain my new shape and diet. Thanks Karen, for getting me on my way to a new and healthier body.” – Valerie Pike, Victoria BC
” Karen’s long distance training program is a perfect fit for me, due to the fact that I have small children. I really appreciated the ability to access the information when it was convenient for me. I love online learning, but things like webinars don’t always work for me because, although I might have a schedule in mind, I really never know what will be thrown at me on a given day. Scheduling attendance at live webinars is difficult, because it’s so difficult for me to really have an hour of dedicated time to myself.
I also love the exercise video clips. Even though I have a background in exercise science, and am a personal trainer myself, I sometimes need a refresher on what specific exercises are. The videos do a wonderful job of explaining form, intensity, etc. Love that! And the workout cards make it very clear on what’s expected of me in a given workout. I’ve felt confident going to the gym, setting up the equipment, and doing the workouts. Not once have I felt the need to have an additional local trainer coach or help me through it. It all just works, at least for me.
I think the more beneficial part was the nutritional information. I also have a
Challenger’s Final Dinner, 2010
passion for nutritional information and crave anything I can get. 🙂 I did lose weight on the program, and I seriously contribute that to the nutritional changes that I made!
The fact that Karen responds personally to email questions, makes it real. Karen, you are not just a fitness generator for your clients. It is clear that you care about each of us, and personally invest your time in our success. I can’t tell you how important that is for me. I need a lot of emotional and psychological support. Your being there (on video, email, or by phone) and addressing issues that I’ve brought up, really helps me stick with it. So again, thank you!” – Beth Jones, M. Ed, ATC, CPT, Denver Colorado
“Karen’s on-line Best Shape Challenge offered excellent progression, and the information was presented in easy to implement stages, with forgiveness for imperfection built in! My strength improved a lot, and I have better balance, but more importantly, I have never had abs on any other program before, and now they’re peeking through! And I love the strong Warrior Woman theme! Women my age are generally not encouraged to celebrate our physical strength, sad but true. I was also able to fit the program into my very busy life! Thanks so much Karen!” – Sheila Corman – Toronto, Ont
“If you are looking for motivation, nutritional and training knowledge so you can reach your ultimate fitness goal, Karen’s Lift and Lose is the class for you! I started this program with Karen in September 2008 and Iabsolutely love it! I am getting stronger, and my body is getting back the definition I thought I’d never see again. Best of all, my energy levels are so much higher. This class is packed full of valuable nutritional information as well as excellent weight training advice and I highly recommend it to anyone who wants to get real results!” – Michelle Bourgeois, Sidney, BC
“After our first meeting with Karen, I knew this was going to change the way I thought about exercise and food. Karen offered sound, in-depth information on nutrition, supplements, how, why and what we eat and weight training turned out to be fun. I ‘lifted and lost’ at least one dress size during the 4 weeks, and have implemented changes every day in my thoughts on food. I can now go to the gym better informed and come out with a sense of achievement. Thank you Karen. I’ll be back!” – Angela Turnbull
“I have had such a great journey. Doing both the 10 and 12 Week Challenges has been enough time to make these changes seem almost routine. I am so grateful to you, Karen, and the work that you have done for us in creating your programs. They truly have altered my life!” – Dariol Haydock
“I am very pleased. With my success on Karen’s programs! I feel so much stronger, and I was even able to do a dip and a pull up that I couldn’t do at all before! I have ab muscles now at the top of my tummy between my ribs that I didn’t have before! Thank you so much for creating this program, Karen! Couldn’t have done this on my own!” – Viola Vanderuyt – Sidney
“I’m heading into my last week (next week) of my 12 week fitness challenge with Karen McCoy Fitness. Some of you know that I did her 10 week challenge late last year and had incredible results and took on this one soon after. Wow, what a journey it has been! I’m not done yet (one week and a bit left), but it feels like the right moment to give a testament to what consistent hard work and dedication and super focus can do to make a difference. Not just for myself, but I believe in anything you do.
I could not have done this without Karen and her dedication to a truly passionate work ethic in her training, clean eating and inner wisdom. It’s really difficult to describe in words what she can help accomplish for a person because it’s really what you decide to put in into it that makes the difference. For example, today, I did an intense focused chest and back workout. And because I’m at the gym 6-7 days a week, you get to know a lot of people but when you’re focused and at the gym this much you really don’t have time to chat.
Today, a lovely older gentleman who sees me every day and wanted to chat but all I did is smile and he knew, not today. Karen and her training in all areas, paves the way to success. My goal was not to lose weight but to tone and sculpt. Don’t get me wrong, you want to lose weight too, find Karen. I have accomplished the toning in almost every category of muscle. I still have a long ways to go but that’s because I’m hooked and I know I can still do so much more! I feel stronger, more confident and even my kids get it. All I can say, if you’re stuck personally, maybe even mentally, maybe physically, Karen can help in all aspects. Strength is found in the muscles of our body but so much is in our mental thinking and what we may or may not realize we can do. Thank you Karen and to all your dedication and hard work!” – Sue Hodgson, Publisher, Seaside Magazine, Sidney, BC
“I have really enjoyed the HLP program and it completely helped me lose all of my baby weight after #2. I can only hope that I have the same success after this baby. It has been so nice not having to think about which workout to do and to follow the program is very simple and workouts are great. Thanks Karen. I am so grateful for you and your programs!.” – Leanne Rowan
“I have LOVED every part of the challenge. I am proud that I have completed it and stuck it out! I am not as happy with my results, only because I know I didn’t give it what I should and could have these past 3 1/2 weeks. I did eat well and I worked out, but the power was not there. One thing that you helped me on during this challenge is realize that this is only the beginning, and 10 weeks is NOT enough time. I will continue working on and having a love affair with me! I LOVE how I feel, I am STRONG! I am a little warrior! I AM ME!” – Misti Miller, Florida
“It has been amazing to see the change happening to my body, both inside and outside! Thanks a million times over for creating such a great program, Karen. It was a great experience.” – Jessica Weirmier, Saudi Arabia
“I have been weight training since I was 15 years old. I forgot how to push myself until Karen reminded me. Now I’m enjoying the heavy weights again and all the pretty muscles that go with them.” – Kristeen Gordon, Alberta
“I HIGHLY recommend The 10 week Best Shape of Your Life Challenge. Karen has put together a program that is like no other…and trust me, I’ve tried every diet/fitness plan out there! She truly made me excited to check my email every Sunday night, which goes to show how Karen manages to make clean eating and working out both interesting and fun! If you simply do what Karen says, you will see results and feel great, both physically and mentally…and she will be there cheering for you throughout your journey. Thank you Karen! Though you are very true in saying that the 10 weeks “is not just about building the perfect bicep”… mine are looking pretty darn good after your challenge! :)” – Chloe Robinson
“Mark Twain said: “Really great people make you feel that you, too, can become great.” Eight weeks into the Challenge I can taste success! Thank-you for inspiring us to be great Karen!” – Susan Lees
“OMG Karen, I can’t believe what your program has done to my physique. I was laughing out loud at the computer last night while watching the legs video. While you were hammering your quads in the strip sets, you said, “That’s the difference between the girls and the women”. I often say this to myself to squeeze in another rep during my workouts!!! Thanks so much – you’ve changed my life!!! I wish I could get through this computer and hug you!!!!” – Jane Henson
“I can’t tell you how amazing I feel and how much my life has changed 🙂 I’ve lost 12 lbs and gained habits that I will have forever! Thank you so much for all your support, you’re an inspiration! “ – Kurstie Somner
Me and hubby, Neil.
“I have been meaning to drop you a note to let you know how much you have inspired me…you have (and the challenge) has made an amazing difference in how I feel, both mentally and physically….and I’m sure I will only get better! I am surprised at the comments I have got (especially about my arms)…even by a couple different women in Mexico…and my husband loves my firm butt!” – Darynn Cowan, Victoria
“Hard to believe that 12 weeks have gone by. I am truly happy with what I have accomplished – mostly that I know that it is possible and that I have found my passion! Thank you for sharing your knowledge and encouraging me to be the best me! You are a bright star and I am grateful to have been able to follow you I know the taking time for me is not a crime and I am a happier person for taking this step. Looking forward to more….!” – Jen Lastiwka
“Karen. I have enjoyed your emails your videos your friendship your inspiration, your food information, and more. All of it. What can I say? You’ve changed my life. From an advertisement on Facebook to a fit toned happy me and happy family life. My team and I go to Kelowna this weekend to compete we are in first place A division. We are the team to beat this year. Thank you for giving me back my strength to get these girls to where they are now. And to get my body mind and spirit on a healthy track! And thank you for the HLP, it’s an amazing place to learn.” – Jeannine Fitzsimmons – Head Coach SCVC U, Volleyball BC
“Hey Karen…just wanted to share….wearing a skirt today…walking down Pandora with my coffee and a twenty-something year old nice looking male was walking toward me and just before he passed me he said “nice legs”….wow….made my day…and all thanks to you!!!!” – Darynn Cowan
“Karen is awesome!! I’ve done personal trainers before and was never really happy. Depending on the trainer depended on the intensity but it wasn’t the whole package you would get. They didn’t discuss diet and the space you need to be in to succeed. I loved the 12 week challenge. The intensity kept going up every 3 weeks which kept you motivated and seeing the results gave you motivation to strive for more. I really liked having everything written down of what I needed to do and keeping track of what I did. You really focused on the eating which I am a firm believer is the biggest part of how you can change your body. You can work out hard but if you don’t eat for it you won’t get the results. I worked out hard before but was a total carb junkie and it showed. I was soft!! I eat way more protein now than carbs and it shows. Thank you so much Karen for all the work you put into the program! You put your heart and soul into it. I can see the rewards you get it is to see the results we get. You helped create us!! Looking forward to carrying it on with the HLP and see more changes in my body in the months to come!!” – Teresa Ruygrok
“I took part in Karen’s 10 Week Best Shape of Your Life Challenge. At that time, I had been working on weight loss for four months and had lost just over 40 pounds. I was exercising regularly and was feeling very good about myself. Then along came Karen and her 10 week challenge! I was very nervous and wondered if I could do it at my age (56 years). Plus I didn’t feel comfortable in a gym and three weeks of the challenge I was going to be on vacation. But I decided to give it a try and all I can say is, “Wow!” I was delighted to lose another 12 pounds and 9 more inches by the end of The Challenge. But what excited me the most was how my body shape changed. I lost body fat, gained muscle and took on shape and definition. Now I feel strong and healthy. When I walk I can feel my muscles flexing all the way down from my backside to my calves. It is such an amazing feeling! I love going to the gym now and working out with weights and seeing how much stronger and healthier I am getting. I have more confidence in myself and in what I am capable of doing. Who says you have to look old just because you are growing older? I look younger now than I did ten years ago. And I’m continuing to set new goals for myself and loving it! I’m delighted I took the challenge. Thank you, Karen!” – Linda Batten– 56 years young, Victoria BC
“I HIGHLY recommend The 10 week Best Shape of Your Life Challenge. Karen has put together a program that is like no other…and trust me, I’ve tried every diet/fitness plan out there! She truly made me excited to check my email every Friday night, which goes to show how Karen manages to make clean eating and working out both interesting and fun! If you simply do what Karen says, you will see results and feel great, both physically and mentally…and she will be there cheering for you throughout your journey. Thank you Karen! Though you are very true in saying that the 10 weeks “is not just about building the perfect bicep”… mine are looking pretty darn good after your challenge! :)” – Angela Lee
“Karen, I just wanted to say thank you :)! There are a couple of really great things that happened as a result of my doing the challenge with you and I wanted to share. I realized I am capable of so much more than I thought I was. Every time I go in the gym and do a workout I connect with my own power and strength, not just physically but emotionally/spiritually as well. This was the perfect timing for me to do the challenge as it fell right on my Saturn. This is a time where I’ve been coming into my own and my own power and doing this has been a big part of that. As well, This program really got me on track and now I have the tools to keep on track. I feel good about what I have accomplished and now I am motivated to stick with it. And… Results! I felt so good after I got the body fat % from you yesterday that I went and had one of the best workouts I’ve had yet!” – Kali Douglas
“My body fat went from 31% to 24% and I lost 9 inches. I’m so happy with my new body! Thanks Karen!” – Joan Tocher, Florida.
“What I have really noticed at the end of this is how much my strength has improved. This was my main motivation for joining the challenge. In all the years I have been going to the gym I have never paid much attention to weights. I always considered cardio to be the best thing for fitness. Boy was I wrong! You have taught me not only how to lift weights but the reason why it is so important. I am truly grateful for your program. It is very well suited for my lifestyle. My husband thinks you rock!!! So again, thank you. You are a true inspiration to women!” – Kirsty Jackson
“Karen, I feel so strong and my mind is powerful this time around! I have so much energy and am pumped every morning I wake up to go and challenge myself to the day ahead. I crave going to the gym now. Wow, I never would have said that before.. Lol! Thank you so much!” – Brandy Clark-Dye
“Haven’t felt this good in years! Bring it on! I’m grateful I found you Karen!” – Ang Bridgman, Vancouver, BC
“Karen, thanks for all the good weight training guides. I am happy to tell you that I have been going to the gym 4-5 days (if it’s 4, I ride my road bike for cardio on the 5th day). Thanks to your knee tips, I have had no knee pain. 🙂 I am gradually increasing the weights. The other good news is that my shoulder pain is markedly diminished. – Thanks !”- Eleanor Sinclair, Florida
My Figure show, 2012 (at age 52). You’re never too old!
“I am so thrilled with how far I’ve come, and this is just the start! Thanks for designing a program that I love, that fits my life, and that shows awesome results if you’re willing to commit. You get what you give!” – Tanya Lee, Victoria, BC
“You and your program have made a huge difference in my life and I look forward to continuing the journey!” – Janis Schultz, Victoria
“Karen, I don’t know how to tell you how lucky and blessed I feel that I found you and your program just about a year ago, well rounded fitness, nutrition and the spiritual stuff :).the whole meal deal, I have held you in high praise to anyone who asks me what I am doing and have passed your information onto others!. Others have seen the “Karen McCoy” way! I love it!” – Dawn Boyle, Sooke, BC
“Karen, I have turned my life around so much with your guidance. Even though I am in the health/fitness field and have been for most of my life I had resisted alot of what you teach – meat protein, whey protein isolate, fats, carbs, training, lowering cardio. Nothing else has ever kept my feet so firmly planted on the ground. In the back of my head I always knew that it was the right way to go but I had a four letter word stopping me – FEAR. Fear that I would get fat, fear I would do it wrong, fear it wouldn’t work, fear of looking good, fear of being the woman I am meant to be, fear of accepting that I needed guidance, fear, fear, fear,….
You took that fear away and I know that I have blossomed in a very humble way. Your approach is so very personal. I have never once felt alone. In the gym you and the ladies are with me – pushing me gently to try a few extra pounds. So what if I can only lift it 6 x – lower the weight and finish the set. Because of your programs and guidance my feet are firmly planted on the ground and my brain is working the best it ever has. I would be very sad if you had to shut down your on line programs but I understand how much work, emotion, thought and heart goes into them. I will continue to talk to others about your programs. The person has to be ready to make this kind of commitment.
If we could only fast forward a person 3 months into your programs then they would be sold! It is an amazing feeling to wake up in the morning and feel good, have energy throughout the day, for the most part not have cravings gnawing at me all day. I could go on and on…. I love your programs, your guidance, your personal touch. These are the things that have me on the right track to be a better person in all areas of my life. Thank you!” – Georgina Blankenship, Aylmer, Ontario
“I struggled with inner motivation and feeling comfortable in a gym for a long time. It’s easy to lose weight (I’ve done it a ton of times and that didn’t guarantee I was in great shape) but through sticking with your program, I, who always needed a strict routine and a slave-driver trainer, am now starting to do it for me because of your program which is not just about the body, but the nutrition, the psych and learning your inner strength, and it didn’t come right away. It came with you going over and over your lessons saying it in so many different ways.
Please don’t give up on those who have little faith in themselves. They have it inside. They just don’t see it yet but if they want it bad enough or their situation gets bad enough that they’re ready to make small changes and not be so hard on themselves (that was me and still is some days) … just putting one foot in front of the other, then things DO shift. I’m loving going to the gym now FOR MYSELF because I want to, not because I’m being pressured or bullied or guilted or doing it for somebody else or, or, or …… As for women who are comfortable in a gym, I thought that was not for me until you offered your program and I thought now I have the opportunity to learn how to use the equipment, learn the etiquette with somebody I trust and learn it’s not as intimidating as I once thought. PLEASE keep doing what you’re doing!!!” – Eileen Coste
“People said that I’d see and feel a difference after 4 to 6 weeks of training. Four weeks have passed, and I must agree, they were right! I feel so much stronger and that translates into ‘good’!” – Sue O’Reilly
“Karen’s program was the best money I’ve spent on myself in a long time! Karen is a wealth of information about all that interests me as a woman in her 40’s. After each session, I felt empowered to make changes to how I live my life: from how I treat my body, to what I serve my family. The information is presented in an easy to understand manner, so you leave feeling, “no problem, I can do this!” I found myself wanting to stay after each session and squeeze out more information from Karen! She has a fabulous way of connecting with people and motivating them to live consciously. One look at her and you know she walks her talk, which for me shows me that ageing has no limits! She is an inspiration!” – Kim Bull
Me and clean eating queen, Tosca Reno
“I can’t say enough positive comments about this course. It has changed my lifestyle in a very positive and permanent way. The timing of the course was perfect for me – knowledge at a time when I am ready to walk the walk!. Thanks Karen!” – Shannon Johnsen
“I joined Karen’s 10 week Best Shape of Your Life Challenge” as it was something new to me and it sounded interesting. My goal was not to lose weight but to tone and possibly compete in the future. I am very happy with my results. Not only do I feel stronger and healthy, my complexion has also improved. The knowledge that I have gained has helped me make healthy lifestyle changes that I am confident I can maintain. Thanks Karen!” – Deanna Pfeifer
“I was always afraid that if I lifted heavy weights, I would get bulky, but with Karen’s guidance, I leaned out and slimmed down. Now my body has amazing definition and tone, exactly what I wanted! Thanks again Karen!” – Lesley Arnold (Dance Instructor), Sidney, BC
“Lifting weights makes me feel strong with the added bonus of looking awesome, and who doesn’t want that?! I wanted to have a strong, well defined body and now I’m a cover girl in my own world!” – Angela Turnbull, Central Saanich, BC
“I cannot believe how much my body shape has changed within 6 short weeks and I had a lot of fun doing it. What I learned is we cannot expect our bodies to change with exercise alone. The body workout truly requires the accompaniment of not only nutrition and mind/spirit workouts, but a guide who not only walks the talk but is as knowledgeable and is as skilled at teaching as you. Now that I have these new found skills under my “weight belt” :), I know I will be better able to utilize your on-line programs to their fullest. Thank you so much Karen!.” – Eileen Coste
“Dear Karen: Thank you so much for offering the Women on Weights program. I have wanted to take a class from you for some time now and I can’t tell you how much I learned in such a short time. You are a great teacher and certainly inspire your students to challenge themselves. I wanted to learn to use weights effectively and safely and I feel very confident in the gym now. I also lost 5 pounds and 2 inches off my waist when those weren’t even my goals. You gave us a tremendous amount of information and also just your honest opinion… which is so valuable. You also gave so much of your time outside the constraints of the 3 hours/week course. I feel that your students really know that you care and that you want them to be successful. Good luck in your upcoming competition. We all got a little taste of what you have to go through to compete and the level of dedication required. See you at the gym!” Patricia Shapka
“For anyone who is looking to get in shape I HIGHLY recommend this 10 week challenge to get you started www.bestshapechallenge.com. I have been a client of Karen McCoy for 5 years now & the programs she offer are amazing and awesome!” – Leanne Rowan, Victoria, BC
“I finished the 10 week challenge at the end of 2014 and I cannot say enough about the program and Karen’s training technique and knowledge of the industry. I’m now onto the 12 week advanced one starting this Friday with Karen and cannot wait to see what is next …the challenge is not necessarily about losing weight but if that’s your goal you will! For me it was about toning, sculpting and learning more about weight training and how relevant it is. I’m 48 and I honestly never believed that my body could change at my age…it has!! Seriously, you’re worth it!!” – Sue Hodgson, North Saanich, BC
“I’ve never seen a program like this in my life (and I’m almost 58 years old). Karen provides high calibre information that she draws from years of training and teaching experience and does it in a supportive, non-judgmental way. The rest is up to you. You get out what you put in. I felt like I was training with a good friend. This program is not just about being on a diet. It covers the whole spectrum of body, mind, and spirit. I lost just over 12 pounds in 10 weeks while working out at my own local fitness studio; and, my husband lost 20 pounds as a result of me just asking him to support me (rather than nag him to come on board with me). I love being into fitness and not into fatness, and want to keep going with this new lifestyle. From the bottom of my heart, thank you Karen!” – Eileen Coste – North Saanich, BC
“If you want your body to stand the test of time, then this program is for you. Karen McCoy’s no-nonsense, logical approach to fitness, health and wellness empowers you to conquer life’s detours and sets you on the wellness path so that all you have to do is keep on going!” – Karen Walters-Edgar
“The Best Shape of Your Life Challenge was fantastic. It motivated me to commit to a fitness plan because I felt so good doing it. I make time for me now and enjoy every minute of it. I am pumped and ripped!” – Marg Yandel
“Karen McCoy has been facilitating Health and Wellness Seminars with us for several years. Karen is engaging, informative, knowledgeable and relate-able. She is inspiring, mindful and patient with them. After the work shop there is a difference in their attitude about food, health and exercise. Karen models the ideals and lifestyle that she teaches and that makes a difference in the power of her presentation.” –Lana Millott, CCDP, Beacon Community Services, Sidney and Victoria
“Over the past 7 years Karen McCoy presented Health & Wellness workshops to government funded/employment programs which I facilitated. She presented to over 20 of our groups and we received excellent feedback from the clients. Clients found the content of workshops relevant, innovative, helpful, and informative in regards to concrete steps they can take to improve their health and wellness. Karen has an engaging way of presenting the information. Additionally, with my family I attended a health & wellness workshop put on by Karen at a local recreation centre and I was impressed with it and found it helpful.” – Jeremy P. Springboard Program, Beacon Community Services, Victoria
“I wanted to add my thanks and appreciation to the presentation from Karen McCoy The presentation was engaging and was well attended by staff male and female and everyone commented on what a powerful presentation it was. Her honest down to earth presentation style is refreshing and I know staff including myself are enthusiastic to read the book and get started; “One Rep At A Time” ~ Sue Klokeid,Manager, WorkSafe BC
“Thanks so much for everything you have taught me in the past 10 weeks… I absolutely LOVED your program! I have never been able to stick to a goal but with you and this program it made it easy for me. I am living proof that if you put your mind to it you can achieve it! You have all the knowledge with what needs to happen in each weeks email, and I love how organized everything was, there was never a point that I got overwhelmed or didn’t know what it was I needed to do. Thank you again and I look forward to the 12 week Challenge!” – Brandy Dye
“When I felt like I needed some help to feel more energized and healthy I turned to Karen. I signed up for her 10 week best challenge program. Well I never looked back! Starting from scratch is what I needed. I liked the way she worked through diet and exercise each week. My gym workouts got stronger and stronger, that coupled with the new diet brought results. My body started tightening up my muscles started to show and most important I had more energy and felt great! Karen takes so much pride in her program and cares deeply about all her participants that’s what sets her apart. She is always there to answer questions and share her years of experience with us.” – Georgia Wiggins, Victoria, BC
“WOW, this program really works! I’m down 13 pounds and 8% body fat. Karen was there for me the entire way, answering emails and providing encouragement. I’m so thrilled I’m signing up for the 12 week challenge too. THANKS Karen!” – Toni Sudul
“Almost three years ago, April 20, 2009 I decided after my son was born and looking into the mirror that I wanted my body back. I wanted to be strong, and lean…I wanted to feel beautiful inside and out. I wanted to somehow transform what I had been staring at and criticizing for 6 long years and two pregnancies to become something I would be proud of. I had always put a time limit on it, in 3 months this, or 6 months that. I started with weight watchers, and how terrible I would feel each week if I stepped on that metal scale if it said I had gained or not, I began referring to them as the weight Natzi’s. I stopped going finally after seeing results from the local Y. Staying at the Y for some time, I decided that it was too much of a distraction of sorts.
I wanted to go someplace that was strictly a gym. No fuss, no classes, just weights and machines. I found Planet Fitness. It was there, I felt at home. No one judging me, no one paying attention, no “skinny” girls pretending to go to classes in their skimpy outfits, just weights and sweat. Watching many of the women and men using weights, I wanted that. I started working out with a trainer in February last year, he was very hard on me. I loved it. He still pushes me. But the most important stumble of all, is seeing on a friend’s Facebook page that he was following you….Karen McCoy. I “liked” the link, looked it up and was excited to see what I wanted to become. I want the lean, sculpted muscle…I want that confidence that comes from within. I am slowly getting there, and I must say with a full time job, an almost three year old and 6 year old and a 20 year old in college, choir, bible study, it has been so very difficult to stick with it and maintain the passion for it….You have shown me that it takes time, dedication, love, and an understanding to get where you want to be physically and mentally. I am not even close to where I want to be, but this journey so far looking back, has been one of love. Love for who I am, and love for who I want to become…it is a love affair with myself just as you said….and I am learning everyday just who this person really is. If it takes 5, 10, or even 15 more years to think I am where I want to be….then so be it…I love the journey. I want to say thank you! Thank you! Thank you!” – Amy Druitz
LADIES: Have you ever found yourself asking the following?
How much protein do I need?
Should I go low-carb? And what is low carb?
How many times do I need to eat in a day to maximize metabolism?
Should I eat a low-fat diet, and if so, how much??
What should my caloric intake be at my age / activity level / weight?
How many days of weight training is enough to see real results?
How much cardio should I do? What type?
What if I’m vegetarian? Is there a different approach?
I have some injuries…how do we work around that?
How much should I lift and how often should I change up my program?
What about recipes….what should I be eating?
What is a realistic weight loss goal for 10 weeks?
Oh yeah, all good questions, and ones that have plagued women for their entire lives (more than likely). Sadly, most women get their answers from 2 sources: the Internet and well-meaning family and friends. Both are fraught with disaster!
Women on my 10-Week Best Shape Challenge get the real goods: we go through it all, and more. What makes this program successful is multi-faceted. First, it’s based on real-life experiences gathered from hundreds of women over the years who have improved and solidified their physical, nutritional, and spiritual health and wellness (yes, spiritual…a BIG component of our work here at McCoy Fitness). We use sound nutritional dictates, sports nutrition research, and yes, we use weights to build, shape, tone and strengthen those lovely vessels of ours!
And we offer TONS of support: coaching calls, email, and whatever a client needs to move forward on her healthy living journey. Because this is a journey, to be sure, and one that we can embrace with confidence, with no gimmicks, built from the ground up, sustainable, practical, and successful.
I created the Challenge 6 years ago because I was frustrated with the fitness industry, and seeing women spend so much money on trainers who simply could not relate to a 40 or 50+ woman and all her complicated needs (really, can a 25 year old trainer really relate? And can you PLEASE stop making us do burpees?!. And what about the Canada Food Guide… really? (Let’s scrap that one all together)! And us women need a support network of like-minded women to call on, something all of us on the healthy living journey certainly need for success. It’s time we serve women properly, professionally, with integrity and within a limited budget that they can afford. Enter on-line training….real on-line training (which is NOT just a workout program emailed to you with some recipes!)
With the Challenge, you get it all. For the price of four 1-hour sessions with a trainer, you get 10-weeks of non-stop learning about fitness, nutrition and how we can feed our thirsty spirits! And I’m with you every step of the way. Promise! You won’t fall through the cracks! And we have a philosophy for living, a motto, a creed, that guides us Warrior Women out there. Real. Honest. Earth-based.
Come join us. Because no woman is an island. We’re all in this together!
karen For more info, please visit www.bestshapechallenge.com. We kick-off in 4 days! We have a few spots left! We’d love to have you join us!
“ I loved every part of the Challenge! I learned sooo much, and there was so much support every week. I especially loved the Coaching Calls and the Q’s and A’s Audios. And you cleared up all the nutrition info that we are bombarded with every day! And I’m loving my body changes. I didn’t think it was possible at 53, but yes, it is! And it’s just the start for me! Thank you Karen!” – Denise Carbonde, Alberta
“Down 13 pounds and 7% bodyfat. Doesn’t that say it all? Thanks for a non-stop program Karen. It’s hard to explain it to people, there’s nothing like it out there! I’m yours forever!” – Samantha Grabowski, Vancouver, BC
I knew a girl from Banff many moons ago, when I worked there, who was from a good family and who had clothes to die for! She had amazing clothes, expensive, and she always looked fantastic. She knew how to dress, for sure, and how to layer, match, fit her body type (I was amazed because I have always wanted this skill, me, the shirts and jeans gal. Lazy, really).
Then I saw her at the lake, sun bathing, and all the mystery went away because for the first time, I could see her body, her almost-entire body, and I realized that she looked, well, average without clothes. OK, maybe less than average. OK, she was in really poor shape.
At that point (and this is me trying to make up for this because I just know what you are all thinking….”how judgemental of you”.., I wasn’t rally thinking ‘eghad, look how out of shape she is’, because I wasn’t really into fitness much then, or body image. My fitness level was likely the same as hers. Nothing special to be sure, but she had learned the fine art of clothes shopping and wearing that had eluded me all my life. It was a juxtaposition that has never really left me, some 30 years later.
Funny though, after that beach incident, I realized that I had sparingly dressed myself and make-upped myself all those years (and still do today) because I never felt comfortable with a facade, no matter how great it made me look. Guess I never wanted to undress or take off make-up and hear someone say, ‘wow, you look so different.’ To me, that would feel weird, false, uncomfortable.
Now I am not against make-up, as you know. I wear it, sure. But always minimal, just enough, because I don’t want to lull myself into a false sense of self, or shock myself when the clothes and the make-up comes off, and I realize that my fitness routine just might not be making the changes in my physique that I thought it was. ‘Uh oh, been fooling myself all these years…it wasn’t working! Back to the drawing board’…Nope. I never want to find myself in that place. Better to know up front, I think.
And there are many days when I would forget to make-up up, and leave the house face naked. But it doesn’t derail me, which is a good thing, and it don’t think it weirded people out. A kind of face commando. But admittedly, I do feel a tad better with some face armour on.
Today, my favourite wear is still t-shirt and jeans (it’s really just laziness, or lack of fashion skill), but I figure as long as I can still wear a slightly tight t-shirt and look ok, then I’m staying on track. (I will layer-up when I’m cold, and then I’ll make an exception). And when fashion shifted a few years back, and all the shirts went into long mode (you can almost pull that shirt down to your knees, can’t you? I figure it’s because sadly, so many of our young ladies are struggling with weight issues), I figured then fashion-makers had to keep pace with our changing, growing body shapes that so many younger people are struggling with, now more than ever. (So rather than change legislation so trans fats and sugars are minimized in our foods, clothing manufacturers and style trenders are having to shift their products, to literally, cover up for Health Canada’s messes).
Give me blue jeans and a nice form-fitting t-shirt and I’m off to the races (but I will always wear heels, to give me the illusion of a leaner body. Yep, even I’ll use a style once in awhile to add some fakery). But I figure the day I can’t get into my jeans or I’m bulging uncomfortably through my t-shirt and over my belt is the day I may just take a note from Miss Banff herself, and, well, learn to layer up.
She did it so well….
Karen
The 10-Week Best Shape Challenge is here! We start January 12th! Sign up has begun! Join us! And wear your favourite jeans and t-shirt with pride!
Everyone is plugging into them, following them like lost zealots trying to find enlightenment, or at least the perfect body.
Apps. Fitness apps. Eating apps. Are you too hooked in?
Now there’s nothing wrong with fitness apps, at the start, or as an occasional check-in (and by occasional, I mean a few times a month). But what I see as a trainer and nutritionist is that those who are heads-down into their fitness app are becoming dependent, removed, and anxious!
I’ve put clients on whole routines, only to see them in the gym pulling up their fitness app, and loading in yet another exercise for back, or legs, or whatever. Seems like what I gave them for a workout wasn’t sufficient, and they needed more (?). (My motto: More is not better, better is better). The same client goes onto the food app, and has learned that according to this wonderful piece of technology, she is supposed to consume 1700 calories (how does it know? Genetics, pH levels, age, acid alkaline levels, hydration, body type and so much more determines your individual metabolism,) and she diligently plugs in her food for the day, to tally up right. Not a smidgen over, or under, please. Gotta be exact or she’s off her game for the whole day.
And then there’s the popular IIFYM (if it fits your macro’s) approach. While it’s good because people are learning about food according to their macronutrient profile (carb, fat or protein), again, it’s creating an anxious, number-counting culture. So, if you didn’t eat the proper amount of carbs for the day, as dictated by the technology theologises, you are to make it up at the end of the day. So stuff that pop tart in your mouth and count it as 30 grams of carbs. You hit your carb macro. Well done! Now you feel in control, safe, on target. The math adds up. Whew! On to tomorrow..same thing, plug in those numbers..
But apps are free, you say. True. They are succinct. True again (boy, are they! Don’t want to be outside those golden numbers of yours!). And they’re portable. OK. And they’re teaching everyone how to eat and train properly, with more info, more options, tending to the numbers….
And that’s where it all falls apart. There are a few coaches out there that use them with their competitor clients. Fair enough, especially if you are going into show and need to go to the extreme that our sport requires to get down to almost single-digit bodyfat (I would still argue that you can do it without an app. I have, for 7 contests now. Oh yeah, and I eat dairy, fruit and drink coffee right up to show, too. I know, I hear the gasps from the competitor’s crowd. But at 53, I crave and move toward total autonomy and freedom. I aim to NOT follow the crowd, and it works beautifully every time. On and off season.)
So let’s ditch the apps, and live real, with freedom. (I just know I’m gonna get a TON of emails over this one!) Let’s come to live by flexible eating, and trust in Self, where we learn to eyeball what we need, how much we need, and know when to eat it (yep, some of these apps actually tell you when to eat too!). Because to me, this is joyful eating, still with a good measure of compliance and discipline, but not dictated by a device in hand. As athletes, and as mature women, we can actually learn to eat intuitively. Power within Self! It’s about time, don’t you think?
And training. Real training for results requires not more exercise choices, but rather proper execution, with intensity, and different training techniques, knowing when to back off on that intensity through the months. And how does your body work with higher rep schemes, or lower reps with more weight (do you even know?), and is that App inspiring you, supporting you, teaching you to strive, reach, apply, test, reapply? This is how real results happen.Training with progressive results, year after year, is intuitive, creative, fulfilling and fun! And we are constantly looking, altering, applying, learning, growing…..that’s the beauty of it.
In my view, apps may have their place for a small time frame, and for certain people, usually those people who need to rein things in. Fair enough. But give an app to someone who has had an eating disorder, or who is borderline OCD, or who is juggling kids, work, life, and, well, you create a bigger mess. Besides, we don’t need to make mathematicians out of our clients, to have them stay within hard, prescribed lines. That’s not human. Or real.
How about returning to basics and put pen to paper, as I’ve always done, for the first while until you learn the ropes. Old school you say? So. It works. And it returns the power to self, and I am not forever relying on a piece of metal that dictates my life, my eating, my body. Release me, please! I’m a big girl! I CAN do this.
In my programs, I teach people to count calories and macronutrients, to start. Then they are taught to un-learn it. I want them to learn to eyeball a buffet and know what they are consuming, to make it all intuitive, flexible, real. I want them to bring that Power back within themselves, rather than give it over to the Technology Gods, the Almighty Apps.
Ah, freedom….can you feel it? That’s what we’re after. That’s the real way to live, eat and train. And that’s what us humans are meant to do!
“It’s my second time on the Challenge, and I loved it! It tunes me up for the year and sets me back on track! And I look pretty good in my (now) size 6 dress. Thanks Karen! It, and you, are one of a kind!” – Sheila Basset, Ontario
I just completed the latest 10-Week Best Shape Challenger, and what a lovely bunch of women it was!
Twenty-five women completed the Challenge, and all found some level of success, as defined by them. See, many come to the Challenge to lose weight, but that’s not always the case. The reasons vary widely..to gain strength, to learn how to lift properly, to build a stronger immune system, to learn about real nutrition, to change their lifestyle, to tighten and tone, to build muscle (my fav!), and more…
During our Final Challenger’s Luncheon, some notable awards were handed out (as well as a McCoy Fitness Warrior Woman T-shirt, and a copy of my fitness book – One Rep at a Time):
– Biggest Loser Award: Tanya Lee (down 12 lbs, 10.5″ and 5% bodyfat). Pictured right and below.
– Runner Up Biggest Loser – Cathie Ounsted (down 14 lbs, 9.5″ and 4% bodtfat)
– Best Natural Athlete – Sue Hodgson
– Best Long Distance – Sheila Corman, Ontario (down 8.3 lbs, 9″ and 2% bodyfat)
– Best Contest Ready – Tina Halasz (ready for stage, I’d say)
– Best Body Renovation – Valerie Houghton (wow, serious shifting happening!)
– Best Natural Shape – Valerie Hansen (down 9 lbs, 10″ and 5% bodyfat)
– Golden Globe Award (55+ athlete) – Janis Jean (at her tender age of..well, 55+ she certainly is outside the box!
– Best Baby Builder – Sarah Pendray (aiming to keep soon-t0-be baby healthy and started on the right track!
Always a blast. Always confirming. Always unique. Thank you ladies. It’s been my pleasure and privilege to work with you all. Now…keep the momentum, ok? Getting there is one thing, staying there (and continuing to progress) is another. And that’s what my maintenance program – The Healthy Living Program – is all about, which you are all now on.
See you in 2015! (Graduates, you qualify for the Advanced Challenge…CLICK HERE!) Karen
PSS Got a female family member who would appreciate a healthy gift? Buy her a spot in the next Challenge. SAMPLE GIFT CERTIFICATE HERE!
“I am so thrilled with how far I’ve come, and this is just the start! Thanks Karen for designing a program that I love, that fits my life, and that shows awesome results if you’re willing to commit! You get what you give!” – Tanya Lee, (right) Victoria, BC
“I’ve always considered myself to be a fairly healthy and fit person, but Karen’s program introduced me to a whole new way of thinking about my diet and my workouts. I have gained muscle and trimmed fat and feel the strongest that I have felt in years. Finally, I shed those extra 10 pounds and turned it into muscle. Fitting this into our busy lives is a challenge, but with short manageable workout routines, it is do-able. The 10 week challenge was the spark to get me going and now I know what I need to do to maintain my new shape and diet. Thanks Karen, for getting me on my way to a new and healthier body.” – Valerie Pike, Victoria BC
“I have had such a great journey. Doing both challenges has been enough time to make these changes seem almost routine. I am so grateful to you and the work that you have done for us in creating your programs. They truly have altered my life.” – Dariol Haydock
“I have to say that overall I am very pleased. I feel so much stronger – was even able to do a dip and a pullup that I couldn’t do at all before! I have ab muscles now at the top of my tummy between my ribs that I didn’t have before so even though the measurements don’t show that much difference I can definitely see and feel a difference! Thank you so much for creating this program! Couldn’t have done this on my own!” – Viola Vanderuyt
On Thursday afternoon, we put our 13-year old Sunny, to sleep.
It was a good death, as far as deaths go. We brought him home from the hospital for one last visit with us all. We kept the house quiet and warm, fed him steak and endless cat food, and just hung out. Then when the vet came to inject him, we cradled Sunny on our son Tristan’s lap for a bit, and told him how much we all loved him. Then, with my husband cradling his beat up little body, and with all eyes on him and with loving pats, the vet slowly injected our beloved friend. Sunny never took his eyes off of Tristan. Within a very short time, he was gone…
Death is hard, to be sure. It is a very personal experience, and for some they are comfortable in the presence of it, for others, not so much. For our family, we have come to accept death as a part of life (our ever-growing pet cemetery out back is proof of that). But for me, it always brings up other stuff, not necessarily death-related stuff, but other thoughts / issues / memories/desires that have been kept at bay. And now, well, the floodgates are forced open once again.
So at this time, I huddle in my house, grieve, process, and think. I needed this, a reminder, a STOP action from the Universe because, well, I wasn’t doing it myself and I needed to….
So I am here, asking myself: “What do I want at this juncture in my life? What is working? What isn’t? What have I been afraid to tend to, or what have I pushed away? And what do I need to bring close, and to really own up to? Simply put: “How do I want my life to move forward from this point on?”
Big stuff, I know. All a result from kitty passing over. Yep. That’s how it is with me, anyway. And it’s good. It’s necessary. And it’s needed.
And so I go back to my chair by the fireplace, look at the old feeding dish where our cat Sunny used to hang out, and I contemplate some more. It’s becoming clear, and I know better than to stuff it away. I’ve gotta feel it. It’s the only way, really. It’s uncomfortable and freeing at the same time. Because we cannot move forward unless we release the past. Buddhist Pema Chodron calls it “leaning in to the sharp point.” Embracing what hurts is the way to change, freedom and an open, ever-growing heart.
Thank you Neil for your compassion, as always, with all living creatures. Thank you Tristan, for your bravery and for doing what was best for Sunny, despite how painful for the humans.
And thank you Sunny, for being, well, you, and sharing your life, and your lessons, with us over the years.
(Top right, Sunny at 12 weeks, Tristan at 5 years old. Bottom right, Sunny’s last day with us).
The holiday parties, shopping (what, you haven’t started yours yet?), gatherings, making travel plans…. it seems to happen earlier and earlier every year!
It’s also a big year here at the McCoy Residence because we have two milestones happening in our family – my husband is turning 60 (yep honey, had to shout it out!) and our son is turning 19….ah, as one slips into adulthood, the other is slipping out! Busy times….
December is my busiest time of year, bar none, and I feel it in my bones – my back is sore (the back represents added responsibilities), my knee is out, my fingers are tight and achy (beginnings of arthritis, likely), and an all-around deep fatigue has me going to bed early, and waking up 9 hours later, still not refreshed. (For those of you into horoscopes, Aries and Taurus have it bad right now…the sun is the furthest away from our signs than any other time of the year, and sun represents energy. Yawn….!).
So what’s a busy girl to do?
I train. Really. Even if it’s just for 30 minutes, I simply must carve out the time. If I don’t, then I will be even less productive, more achy, and lose even more sleep. Energy begets energy, and so I push on….
It’s hard to make a lifestyle out of this, I know. I just finished up a group of 10-week Challengers, and the results were great, but the overall compliance was, well, about 80%. But in my books, that’s good, especially as we head toward December. The Advanced gals are still at it, not graduating until mid December or so, and they are pushing on thru with 5-6 days of training a week.
So if you’re having a hard time getting your workouts in, here’s some tips:
– maintain the same workout time and days throughout the week.
– maintain a minimum of 3 days a week, 4 is better, 5 is golden.
– major in something….don’t try to do it all – Pilates Monday, yoga Tuesday, weights Wednesday…. you will see few results and will experience only frustration.
– eat before and after you train….always! (Protein-up ladies!)
– cardio AFTER weights!
– find a trainer / program that represents YOU! A 21-year old is not going to know the body and challenges of a 50+ year old!
– schedule your appointments (hair, nails, luncheons) around your workouts. Never cut into your training time.
Alright, onward, Warrior Women! See you at the mall!
Karen
PS My 10-Week Best Shape Challenge for January is taking registration. And I am also offering Gift Certificates to the Challenge (view HERE) in case there is any female family member or friend that you know can benefit from this program! Thousands have already! Email or FB message me for details!
I see this every time I start a new group of Challengers….it usually starts around now, in the first few weeks of the Challenge. The innuendos and soft undercuts start coming…
for the 40+ woman!